Sexual complexes

Sexual complexes

In Western countries are known and fairly common these sexual complexes: Alice in Wonderland, Titania, Knight and libertine, Messalina, Cinderella, Don Quixote, Madonna and the Whore, donzhuanizm, complexes of Othello, Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde.The complex of Alice in Wonderland is developing in women living in a fantasy world.Their imagination creates a scenario of love and perfect union in which each partner plays a role. These dreams lead to the fact that women live with the expectation of meeting the complex with a partner - the embodiment of their dreams.When Titania complex woman creates in his mind the image of the ideal man, who is looking for a lifetime. Masculine ideal is influenced by literary characters, the heroes of films. Heroes of the novels or the actors included in the sexual fantasies, particularly during sexual contact a woman conceives as a partner in another person.The essence of the complex Rtsarya and libertine is that a woman seeking a man is both a knight and libertine. In this complex there are two different types: Knight, as the embodiment of manhood, a noble force, inspiring confidence, a sense of security, support from adoring women, romance, pure and innocent, and libertine - the personification of the rough, spontaneous male power, superseksualny man.Messalina complex inherent in women's passionate, sensual arousal, increased requirements to a partner, changing partners, that is, women orgiastic sex culture. At different periods of history, sexual woman of quality valued highly, but today many consider an attractive image of a sensual woman, believing that the passion, sensuality - the main thing in marriage.Cinderella Complex reflects a passive stance woman awaiting the prince from a fairy tale, which will bring her into the world of adventure, beauty and comfort. Dreams of an unusual, beautiful man typical of his early youth, but for some women they persist into adulthood. These women dream of having their loved noticed, was injected into a great light.When Don Quixote complex shows a man to a woman illusory expectations and desires, speaks of her with adoration, idealizes it builds on a pedestal, worshiped her.The name of the Madonna and the Whore complex quite accurately determine the behavior of many men, educated in the traditions of Western culture. He is a controversial assessment of women by men. On the one hand, they emphasize the value of femininity, faithfulness, goodness, fidelity, on the other - appreciate the sensual women, affordable, flirtatious. One give as gifts of spiritual love, choose a wife and mother, to another lust, it has increasingly looking to satisfy their sexual needs. Often these men are just divided into two categories of women: women-wives and female lovers. This is a very popular complex.Even a cursory acquaintance with the history of culture shows how this system is - it is a consequence of double standards inherent in men, and specific training, cultivating the recognition of their excellence.Donzhuanizmom called style of behavior whose purpose - to conquer women, they have only to satisfy their sexual needs. The greater the number of love affairs with such men, the more they are strengthened in the consciousness of man's own values. A woman is regarded here as a thing which, after its master, loses its value and interest.Othello is a complex of pathological jealousy. Men with such a complex jealous his partner more often under the influence of alcohol, drawing in his mind a scene of betrayal. This complex is likely to be considered a manifestation of the fear of women, fear of being ridiculed, lose your dignity, than the result of the desire to possess a woman completely.Complex Romeo and Juliet find love at first sight, the desire for early marriage. Its origin is connected with the prohibition of premarital sexual contact when sexual love is allowed only in marriage. The need to connect with this complex is so strong that love can overcome all obstacles in their way. In our time, this system practically does not occur, since the tolerance of premarital sexual intercourse is widespread, and marriage is also not a big problem.Together Tristan and Izoldy combined eroticism and guilt. Individuals with this complex, violating a ban premarital sexual relations, have mixed feelings: on one hand - sexual satisfaction, on the other - a sense of guilt for violation of accepted moral standards.It should be mentioned that the above complexes in themselves are not pathological and does not cause sexual dysfunction, they only provide a background for their development.Such a role play and sexual myths, for example, the myth of the femme fatale, an erotic paradise, golden age, etc. Complex behavior, myths, creating certain attitudes about sex or partner can help create the conditions for the development of sexual health disorders. The myth of a fatal, fatal woman is typical for almost all cultures where men dominate.Fatality while women expressed in different ways, but most women seem the embodiment of evil deities, the evil forces sovratitelnitsey men, etc. General cultural myth is also an erotic paradise, which reflects the characteristic features of a particular culture. For example, in the Muslim paradise of houris give eternal sexual pleasure for men, and the Christian - a person moves from earthly love to love divine.The formation of complexes of sexual and sexual Trauma, which subsequently may affect the sexual behavior contributes to improper training. There are systems that are widely distributed in the world. These include, for example, the complex, which appears in women after childbirth and is a sudden change in her relationship to men - positive or, conversely, negative. In the latter case, a man reduced to the role of "drone".The most common causes of sexual Trauma in childhood are the parents of the following applicable measures or situations which may in the future cause a negative attitude toward sex:severe punishment of a boy or girl for sex games for children, followed by "explaining" that play such an abomination;suggestion to children that sexual activity is sinful and disgusting;situation when a child accidentally sees the sexual act and interpret it as a form of mutual humiliation of people;fear, which can cause physiological unprepared child sexuality - masturbation, spontaneous erections, menstruation, erotic dreams.These factors may cause the formation of a complex of sexual inadequacy.Changes in the culture clash between the different layers of culture, particularly in inter-ethnic marriages form their own complexes, and the myths that may later become the basis for the emergence of sexual dysfunction.